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Session mechanics

/guides/coaches · 18 March 2019

The mechanics are dull and they carry a surprising amount of the value. Sessions that fail rarely fail on technique; they fail because they were rescheduled twice, ran without notes, and lost the thread.

Working defaults for a coaching series
MechanicDefaultWhy
LengthThirty to sixty minutesLong enough to reach reality and options, short enough to hold attention and to defend in a calendar.
CadenceOnce a monthLeaves a real interval for the way forward to be tried at work before it is reviewed.
SettingOne to one, no observersThe presence of anyone from the same organisation changes what can be said.
NotesKept by the lead, not the coachThe commitments belong to the person acting on them.
OpeningReview the previous way forwardMakes the series continuous rather than a set of unrelated hours.
ClosingOne action, one signalAn action without a signal cannot be reviewed next month.

Rescheduling

Move a session rather than cancel it, and move it once. A series that has been postponed twice has effectively ended, and it is more honest to say so and restart deliberately than to let it fade.

Ending a series

Series should end on purpose. Agree in advance roughly how many sessions you are both committing to, review at that point, and be willing to conclude that the useful work is done.